Pushing Forward..

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Pushing forward is very important,I have had to go back to school and from what I can tell I have made it to level 4 in almost all my subjects,right now I have one more level to go and I can then start my life like I should have done along time ago,but I wanted to talk about pushing forward or finding what drives you to do what is needed in order to get to where you want to be in life.Right now my drive is to be with my life partner and in order to do that I need a great job that will help me reach then goal so this is why I believe it is real important to find a drive it is not as hard as you may think,and once you lock in on it everything moves so much faster you have always wondered why many people pass things so fast and said well why can’t I do the same well you can you just got to want it bad enough.

Finding your drive can make you study harder push more and even look deeper into something this can make you very good in anything you do or want to be in the future.One thing I see in my class is people who skip a lot of day and these people are in their 20s and 30s and some are even older they do not have the drive to wake up every morning and go to class and yet they sit back and say to them self’s why am I not reaching my goals in life.Well it is real simple to explain why they are moving slow it is due to the fact they have no motivation or drive to make them give 100% and see things right till the very end ,to me drive is real important factor in life without it we are standing still not moving anywhere fast.

Remember when you wanted them new jeans and you worked your ass off to get them well what do you think you were doing then you had drive and will to get what you wanted at any cost no matter how hard the road got you stuck with it no matter what and that was why you were rocking them jeans the very next week.There are many reasons why we give up but the biggest reason is cause we never used drive and will to complete them life goal and we always gave up to easy,look at boxers and how they push them self’s to work their body to be able to take all the pain or look at runners how they train their legs till it hurts even to walk why because they have the will to be the best and will do what ever it takes to be standing on top when it is all said and done.

The power that drive as and the will to push it to the very end is more then any of us will ever know about even dream about you make your self good no one can do it for you,because you need to want it in the first place.So take the time to find your drive do not let anyone tell you that your nothing stand up take charge if they want a war then bring it to them never give in and most of all push forward even when it hurts because that is what it means to be a champion..

Lola is my light

Lola is my light even in the darkest night,she lights  my soul on fire makes me feel higher where would I be without her by my side always got my back and down for the ride fills me full of her love and lust it is in her I will always trust my future is in us .Their is only one for me ,never turn back any part of time just want her to be mine till the end of time.

Sexual Harassment

Statistics show that 87 percent of women living in the world have experienced sexual harassment.With all that we know the question remains,what is the effect of sexual harassment toward the women of the world?Sexual harassment damages the woman’s home life as well as her work life.

Sexual harassment clearly has an effect on a women’s home life.Researchers have found women that have suffered from sexual harassment have emotional health problems;a few of them include anxiety,depression,sleep disturbance and weight loss or gain as well as loss of appetite and severe headaches.As we all know anyone of these would make life at home more difficult and harder to deal with as well as heal from.After sexual harassment women also have problems with trust as well as intimacy,this goes to show there would be lots of damage to her personal life.How do we know she is not married or has a partner and if she does could you imagine the suffering she would go through knowing she can not trust him even if she tried her hardest.Researchers also have found that after sexual harassment some women have had suicidal thoughts or attempts to take their own life.How damaging is that to their family homes?Their family and love ones have to suffer the same as the mom or women,this is not fair.All the suffering due to sexual harassment you can clearly see how it effects life at home after sexual harassment takes place.

Sexual harassment towards women has a big impact on the work environment.In these times we live in we need women in the work place,this makes that very hard.Researchers say there is too much sexual harassment towards women ,this makes the work environment very hostile,and due to this women’s performance in the work place is effected.They have hard time working in team groups and that causes low work group productivity.This all leads to many women being fired and losing their wages.Women find it really hard to perform as well as trust.Researchers also show that assults are on the rise are due to the sexual harassment,because women feel like they need to protect them self’s even if it means they have to cause physical harm to another individual.this also leads to women treating men in their work environment very poorly.(as well as making examples out of them trying to payback  all men for the sexual harassment they have had to go through.)All this has the work environment suffering severe impact due to all the sexual harassment.

Thus,sexual harassment is damaging women’s home lives as well as their work environment and performance.Their mental health and even their physical health.Furthermore if we don’t make women feel safe how will they ever perform and be healthy in their work environment and in their personal lives.

Love and lust

Love and lust is there a difference ?There  is a big difference between the two on one hand lust is pure sexual and is something you have with a one night stands and love is a connection between two people found in partnerships,you develop love by working towards it and lust you just need to want to get laid.Many people think that both are the same thing but there really not even close to each other .

Lust can make you feel good and you can enjoy it ,but love makes you feel alive and give you a connection that is unmatched in life,In life you do not want just lust you need love and that connection to complete your life this is very important to find no one wants to be alone and have no one to hold or keep them safe.

So out of the two choices I am glad I picked love and not lust.I enjoy every minute I spend with my partner is the greatest time of my life ,if it was just lust it would get out and I would not be interested but she hold everything I need and at no time do I have to look anywhere else there for I am complete and living my life to the fullest so go with love you can never go wrong…

Ninja meditation

Ninja meditation is fundamentally about reconnecting with the earth. Through physically connecting with the soil that sustains life on the planet, the ninja visualized roots growing from his feet which traveled deep down through the millions of years and the kilometers of various layers of soil and rock and drawing strength from the earth’s core. One tenet of this believe was that contemplation on this subject brought out the realization that there were in fact two suns, the one that spins overhead and the one at the center of the planet. This duality and the understanding of it form the core beliefs inherent in the ninja meditation that reconnects him with the earth. The earth is not only a mother, it is also a father, and cradled between the two poles, anyone, an assassin, a priest, or a laborer can draw a great and abiding strength. By combining simple methods of meditation with forceful maneuvers, you can learn how to become the master of any situation. Ninja meditation involves cultivation and circulation of Ki, mental powers, kuji kiri, breathing exercises and concentration to become able to control the mind. In feudal Japan, from the turbulent Kamakura era through the Edo era, a period spanning over seven hundred years, the ninja were the assassins that covertly carried out the will of their wealthy lords, the daimyo and the shogun. They were a sect that was only unified in secrecy and many of their techniques are lost to this day. Ninja Meditation has come down to us through history. This ritual of contemplation and rumination acted as a focus for the ninjas’ deadly skills, an aid in their clandestine dealings. The role of meditation in Japan is one that has roots that stretch to places as distant as India and as far back in time as the founding of the Japanese nation. Meditation in Japan during the eras where the ninjas were active was a mix of stretching, healing and deep thought that was designed for a seamless integration of mind and body, enhanced concentration and calm above all else. This meditation was essentially the ability to drown out everything except the most important measure at hand, an invaluable skill for the ninja. Chi, alternately referred to as ki or qi, is the life essence that exists in all things, a vibrant throbbing energy that pulses at our fingertips and cries out to be used. Legend has it that the great martial artists of old were able to channel this energy through deep meditation and reflection and create a physical force. By sheer will alone, they could hit harder, run faster, and throw fire. This is, of course, the stuff of legend, but even today, people in many parts of the world realize that chi is a very real force, one that can be tapped and used to better the lives of those aware of it. Meditation often involves the visualization of this energy and reflection on the forms it takes. Is your chi a moving river or does it resemble a circle of fire? For the ninjas, one place that they drew chi from was the earth itself. The earth represented an unbending foundation, a place that is crossed and troubled with confusion and strife, but remains itself unchanged. With their focus on earth meditation, the ninjas contemplated a deeper connection with this inexhaustible source of strength. By Phil Stilchford