This is the dark yoda kang blog where I talk about many different subjects,and bring you my must inner deep thoughts.I am a person who like to share with others in a writing format.I do a lot of study and this is where I put the things I learn within my life…so stay tuned!

Posts tagged “Relationships

Pay Attention

Paying Attention and why it is important in life?

Relationships 

One must agree that they true value of a persons company is measured by how much they pay attention to you,and help you grow;and in order to be a great partner you must pay attention to your lover.So many times we ignore pay attention by saying to our partner that we currently have to much things on our plates at once,but in order to love somebody you must notice everything,and remember special dates like anniversary’s date nights ect;but not to many of us do and wonder why our relationships are not going so well..there is an old saying that it is the little things that truly count,and that hits the nail right on the head.So never forget to ask your partner how their day was,or they will feel like you just don’t care about what is going on with them anymore. Little things like doing the dishes so they don’t have to when they get home from work,or running them a nice hot bath so they can relax when they get home.Taking the time to make dinner for your loved one,and giving them your full attention can insure you have a loving relationship for years to come.Everybody is the world wants to be loved by their partners,and many women base this off of how well you listen to them and pay attention…so invest some time into your partner they will love you for it and in turn you get to smile because you made them happy.Life is to short to miss out on the greatest thing of all spending time with someone you truly love smiling everyday and maintaining that for many years into the future.So take the time to listen and pay attention because it is the key that unlocks the heart.

Environment

So many people go for walks all the time but yet never truly pay attention to their environment..you should listen to that bird sing,and soak up that sunlight and enjoy the warmth.Also look around you because you can get so many creative ideals from seeing how people interact,and learn what problems are going around that maybe you can help with;you can gain so much knowledge just by doing this one little thing,and forget about the stresses in your life and just enjoy that moment and brain storm or just simply relax your mind,and let it flow.Paying attention when you’re out makes you feel that much more safe,and feeds your mind with tons of information to be used later down the road…so never lose sight of paying attention because it is truly your best friend.

This is just a small post today but the thing I wish you to take home from this is that you must slow that world down from time to time,and truly become one with pay attention because the benefits you can receive would blow your mind.Focus has always been a key element in life so use it to your advantage for great health love and wealth.Life is about living so get out there and take your day by storm and show your love one just how much you care.This is dark yoda signing off for now hope to hit you all with another random thought soon,till then keep blogging.


The Love Of A Woman!!

The Strong Wife Every Man Desires,And Falls In Love With

The leading woman in my life is my wife Lola,I can’t begin to explain just how much her love,and her support means to my life.There was a time not to long ago where I was into doing bad things onto others,and that is what I thought I was always going to be and that there was nothing that could change it.Then one day this interesting woman came onto my radio show who was so full of life,and brought me so much laughter;the first person to truly ever make me laugh to the point I felt happy.This made me start to think that maybe that maybe I could change and become more kind and caring,and that I didn’t have to bad things unto others.

After we started talking more and more,she turned around one day and said to me that she saw great things in me;and felt that I had very kind energy feel about me…well this had me turned upside down because I didn’t know how this woman was able to see something that I couldn’t even see my self.The more we started to hang out the more connected we became,so one day we both agreed to give a relationship a try,so I asked her what is it that makes you want a partnership with someone like me;and she stated that at the moment she didn’t know it just feels right.After being together for a while she said to me that she could tell that I am destined to do great things for my self and for others;now given my past it didn’t seem like it could be true in my mind at the time.Sometime went by and I found out that our connection was growing so strong I wanted to share everything with her even stuff I have never told anyone else about.

So I let everything out told her the truth of what I did in my past aired it all,and her exact words was that was then and this is now;you’re no longer that person you’re my loving man and that all that counts.This blew me away never before have I ever met a woman so understanding and supportive and loving in my whole life.Even when I was out of work couldn’t find a job she was in my corner supporting me with all of her might;lifting my spirits up.No matter even if we were fighting she was still in my corner cheering me on saying babe you can do it I know you can my love.They say words can excel you to high planes never reached before if they come from a loving place I so agree.No matter how hard I was to deal with on my days being depressed she was there pulling me back into love and happiness all over again.

She would be right there to give me advice work with me to solve any problems I might be having at that time;She would rub my back tell me all the time that I am a great man,and not to worry things will turn around and everything will be ok you’ll see.During the hard times it was her love that got me through,and her caring that keeps me right with her even now as we come into our 5 year together.I wouldn’t trade her beautiful heart for anything in the world not even one single thing;because love like this is hard to come by but if you look in the right place it is always there.5 years later she is still the love of my life and still loves me and supports me in whatever I do in my life,and I return her love 2x more back to her because she deserves all of that and more.

Love may grand but support and caring with love on top is better then icing on a cake.I am so thankful to my loving wife for all the support,and the help in making me the man I am today.You’re a beautiful soul my baby…so if you have someone like this in your life hold them close and never let go,and always make sure you treat them with respect because they truly are one in a million.Behind every strong man is an even stronger woman,and that quote is so true just look at all your leaders.So stay true and love her or him forever because the benefit of having these type of people in your life only makes it that much better to live.This post was a heat of the moment hope it makes sense,and hope you too can find that love of her life.Thank you for reading my post keep on blogging till next time fellow writers peace and blessings.